Working, working, working...

On January 16, 2016, my mom passed away after a two-year fight against lung cancer (she was not a smoker, so this diagnosis was not only confusing but made even more devastating by the "Why???" factor).

 It took a while to get my head in the right place to make up people and words and things that happened to those people to make those words.

 For anyone who is a writer or wants to write and has experienced a loss, do know the words come again. Concentrate on taking care of yourself, and that part of you will come again.

Best,
Sydney

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